My fortune cookie to day read – Decide what you want and go for it.
Oh my goodness! Sometimes you mind says no and your heart says yes. Sometimes your heart says no and your mind says yes. Only on a rare occasion does the heart and mind agree with no regrets 😉
The 3rd party would be your spirit guiding you to help make a decision. Anyone that is impatient, will create karmic debt. When a person chooses something on a whim will create regrets, which creates karmic debt.
Weight the pros and cons to know exactly what you want, with no regrets.