Being yourself creates the best of both worlds.
The internal world of archetypes (positive and negative) is the landscape of good/bad, heaven/hell, black/white, etc. And, once again man-made concepts that provokes the illusion of who you think you are. And, as we all know it creates self-esteem, self-worth, and self-love.
Being yourself is to learn how to say no. Say to yourself will it really matter in 50 + years from now what other people see me as, or is it more important how you see yourself.
Power only has faith. No faith then no power. Keep your power.