Suddle changes are debts that one creates
Everything changes at a drop of a hat, but it is so suddle that people become immune to changes. Then that change becomes apart of everyday life. That is how a groove, a pattern begins in a human behavioral patterns. That change becomes a part of a personality.
It’s the little things that go un-noticed, such as dust, that change you instead of you changing it. Dust is particles of living breathing organic life forms. All of the sudden you might get what is called allergies. But, the kicker is – the dust has always been there, you just did not notice – that is a form of mindlessness. To be unaware of living breathing organic life forms that are invisible to the human eye.
As the saying goes – what you can not see can hurt you more then the things you can see. It is a matter of a behavioral pattern that has taken control of matter over mind, instead of mind over matter. You – your mind is aware of things un-seen. But, as a human being totally relying upon one’s own eyes as a form of living in a particular behavioral pattern, one misses out on much of life.
Changing a behavioral pattern is way easier then it changing you.
When my daughter was growing up, she use to say, “mom you are like Martha Stewart”. Because I loved to create a sanctuary in my home. A place of roots for my family.
Key – do you keep same pattern of human behavioral pattern even after children have grown, or do you make changes. Changes will change you when you least expect them to. Except, when you know they are coming and you plan accordingly. I knew the day when each of my children were born, that at a particular age they would leave home. Because, at that point they knew the morals, values, and ethics of what life has to offer. They in turn were prepared for suddle changes, when changes took place.
I am a Gemini, my daughter is a Scorpio, and my son is a Taurus. As a mother is was very important to understand their past karmic debts from past lives, in order to help them grow as a human being to their full potential in this life time. A parent can not teach love if a parent has never learned what love is. Bottom line – we pick our parents in each life time, it is under soul contracts before coming to 3D 3rd dimension.
Basically when children grow up it is time for change. Change of how you decorate the outside and the inside of self. It is a time of renewal to be acquainted with self. My children are now in their 30’s. I am super happy growing into a different person everyday.
When you have learned to be prepared of suddle changes then you are ahead of the game called life.