Ties that bind

For the past two months I have been doing some heavy soul-searching.  First, we seek, then find, then conquer, and then move on.

We seek what we think we want.  Then we find what we think we want. And the universe says oh really.  Watch this I will give you more of what you don’t want.  So, we always get what we want, but not how we want it.  In order to conquer, we must learn the lesson of what we wanted and to understand why it did not work out the way we wanted it to.  To conquer is to understand on what love level something did not work out the way we wanted it to.  To move on, is to understand the love level – of the in between of the between of self, which is the core of being.

To move on is not simply to just try and forget about something and it will go away.  Because the universe is the teacher that teaches tough love.  And if we don’t learn our love lessons, the universe will keep giving us our lesson, over and over again, until we learn our love lesson.

Love lessons are learning to love our hates.  The relationships each person has is a level of love.  Anger is only hurt turned inside out.  So learning to love our hates is the ultimate lesson all humans have to learn in the game of life.

When we eventually learn to move on, is when we have the understanding that we are no longer bind to the ties that bind us.